The grouping phenomenon

Hello all ... wanted to tell a few words .. applicable all thourgh our lives ..

Every human being in this world wants to be happy. He wants to live a meaningful life.

To be happy an individual needs

1) Trust : One can be happy only when he is confident that the people around him wants him to be happy ...

2) Respect .. for what he is ..

3) Affection .. that friendliness .. the comfort ..

4) Care ..

5) Guidance to do good things

6) Appreciation for being good .. and doing good things ..

7) Gratitute .. thanking him when he helps you ...

8) Love ..

It is natural that one tries to find a company of friend(s) which provides him with the above things he expects ...

Actually noone wants to deliberately make someone unhappy .. the situations turn out to be so ... ( situations are the tests .. which test the strenght of the bonds)

So when someone notices that as time passes by ..due to unavoidable circumstances .. a company of friend(s) which used to provide the above things is no longer in a situation to do so.. he/she has two options ...

1) Look for another such company of human being(s)

2) Try to make the friend(s) realise that what they are doing is a mistake .. which can be costly .. and that it is not the right way ...

If he has time and resources and the oppurtunity .. he can pursue the second options ... but in most cases they leave it for them to realise it for themselves that .. what they have done is a mistake .. and go ahead and live his life ... this time making sure such situations do not arise ...

and this is a contunuous process .. all throught the life ...

You can observe that .. when we meet a big set of people ... initially this shifting happens very rapidly (1st sem) (they find the company that suits u) .. (option 1) .. over sometime ... once the grps are formed (sem2 to sem8) option 2 (trying to help others realise ) happens ... then .. when there is complete change in locations (join companies) .. again new people .. again shuffling .. again grouping :)) ... (until u shift to another company :)))) ) ...

ha haaaaaaa .. so that is life .. :)

but remember one thing .. one grp of friends from whom you cant escape is FAMILY ... some people still do that .. by seperating .. divorcing etc .. but most cases you cant escape .. option 2 is the only option :DDD ..

enjoi .. have fun ..

Suman.